Need financial help with my MTF please

June 9, 2013

Dear Dr. Reed,

I am a woman 40 years of age who was born with the birth defects which occur in Transgendered Females misgendered under the classification as male. I have been living as a woman for 5 years . Furthermore I am also on SS disability in regards to Depression, anxiety as well as narcolepsy. I currently reside with my parents who are unsupportive to most help regarding any legal physical or mental corrective measures in the gaining confirmations necessary to be recognized as a woman here in the USA or any other Country . I barely squeak by on the disability provided by social security to cover receiving HRT under the care of Endocrindioligist & the Psychiatric care of

 I do have medicare coverage but yet to understand any help it is giving . Any information you might be willing to share with me as far as seeking and finding a sponsor or any type of finacial help in proceeding with all neccesary surgeries with GRS for the MTF. This has been a lifelong struggle that a day hasnt gone by without my thoughts of wishing ,hoping and dreaming of a day in which I have the physical means to act with the female mind, spirit, soul, feelings &emotions i was born with. I thank you for any thoughts ideas or help no matter how small or meanial you could give in reaching this goal. best regards  Olympia
 

June 9, 2013

Good morning Olympia,

If we have already communicated, please excuse.   Medicare does not pay for MTF surgery at this time, could be changing soon, so please stay in touch with Medicare.  50% of our patients come in with a sponsor well known to the patient.

Thank you for your interest in what we do.  Sounds like you are well on your way.  Please note, our Email address will be changing to Reed@srsMiami.com

This December, 2012 we re-opened a Grant program to help needy applicants with compassionate discounts.  June is a promotional month.

After reading the attached, if you believe I am the doctor for you, please initiate a consultation over the phone with our office by sending us your name, address, and telephone number in an envelope along with a check for 250.  We’ll get started ASAP.  We’ll have a lot to talk about.

Cordially,

Harold M. Reed, M.D.
1111 Kane Concourse, Suite # 311
Bay Harbor Islands, Florida 33154
305-865-2000

I WAS BORN AS A MALE BUT FROM NY SOUL I WAS FEMALE. MY ATTRACTION AND BIHAVIOUR WAS LIKE FEMALT .I WANT CHANGE MYSELF COMPLETELY .PLEASE HELP ME . YOU CAN CONTACT ME THROUGH A EMAIL.PLEASE HELP…

Poor computer programer desires help with MTF breast aug. and vaginoplasty

Hi, my name is Amiley?I have finally made the transition from male to female. I am 28 and hold a job as a computer programmer in the U.S. Norfolk, Virginia. ? I don?t know if you can help?but I can barely afford the cost of living yet alone the cost of breast augmentation. I have been on phyto-estrogens for the past 3 years, and I don?t have insurrance so I can?t find a doctor that will prescribe me the HRT that I need. My time to transition and still look the way I desire and have desired my entire life is running slim. If there is anything you can do to help me, including finding the right insurrance, to helping pay for the breast augmentation, to the final srs surgery?IT WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.. Thank you, Amiley D.

June 9, 2013

Dear Amiley,

Thank you for your interest in what we do.  Sounds like you are well on your way.  Please note, our Email address will be changing to Reed@srsMiami.com

This December, 2012 we re-opened a Grant program to help needy applicants with compassionate discounts.  June is a promotional  month.

After reading the attached, if you believe I am the doctor for you, please initiate a consultation over the phone with our office by sending us your name, address, and telephone number in an envelope along with a check for 250.  We’ll get started ASAP.  We’ll have a lot to talk about.

Cordially,

Harold M. Reed, M.D.
1111 Kane Concourse, Suite # 311
Bay Harbor Islands, Florida 33154
305-865-2000

Lady wants pesky periods to stop

June 7, 2013
Which surgery are you inquiring about?  Female to Male Reassignment
Any pertinent medical history?  Long story short, I’m disabled by my periods, and doctors discriminate against age, so I had to get a sex change. I have my SRS letters.
Yeah, I know I shouldn’t have to get a sex change to get relief from my periods, but I will do anything.
How did you hear about The Reed Centre?
Rondolyn

June 7, 2013

Good afternoon Rondolyn,

Please see a gynecologist or an endocrinologist.  Consider

1. Use birth control pills

The best method to stop your period is to take contraceptives or birth control. Before you take you should see your gynecologist or local doctor who will give you advice on which type will ideal suit your requirements. Your doctor will describe what to be expecting, what dosage to take, and also any risks involved.

Birth control pills inhibit fertilization and ovulation. They can be in a patch form, injectable or oral. The best way to stop periods is to use oral contraceptives in pill form. These pills must be taken one cycle before the period that you do not want to have. When consumed on a regular basis as directed, you will stop getting periods. Once you stop taking pills, your menstrual periods will go back.

2.  Surgery

Your gynecologist may recommend Surgical procedure to stop your period. This can occur in case you have some medical conditions that involves heavy menstrual bleeding like endometriosis or uterine fibroids. Your gynecologist may propose a hysterectomy (surgical removal of the womb). This will totally stop your period, but will be performed when the other surgical treatments aren’t successful. The other surgical methods include:

- Myomectomy, refers to the surgical removal of uterine leiomyoma (fibroids).

- Uterine artery embolization (UAE),

- Endometrial ablation,

There are other methods for you to get stopping your period, but they may not be very reliable or effective. So consult a gynecologist to give you the best method to delay or stop your menstrual period.

Harold M. Reed, M.D.

Status post vaginoplasty, now with aesthetic and functional concerns

June 6, 2013
Hello, my name is Maria  I’m a 22 year old girl from Naples in October 2010 she underwent an operation of RCS, unfortunately with bad results both aesthetic and functional. The work to which I have agreed to be subject was unusual and I was presented as a novelty in the field of gender change, even if I agreed with little security.  The technique consisted in taking a small part of the free edge of mucosa from the inside of the mouth and allowed to rise once in the laboratory be put on the walls of the vaginal cavity. The result is little depth, exaggerated secretions, blood loss, risk of closure, if not held in the opening with a brace of rubber always inside, and with adjacent stenosis. So to solve this problem I wanted to be subjected to an intervention with rectosigmoid colon that I know that you made, and together, tweaking the aesthetics of the vagina. From a visit with another doctor are aware of some shortcomings of high severity present in the aesthetics and functionality of my vagina, in fact I was told that he had still remaining corpora cavernosa which are the cause of an unattractive and unfeminine swelling when they are excited, and the urethral meatus in position with respect prefixed to his home and then I was shown and recommended an intervention ileovaginoplastica with contextual ectomy of the urethral bulb, the residues of the corpora cavernosa and urethroplasty, correction of vaginal lips to give to the newly vagina a more harmonious and natural.
I have some basic questions to ask you regarding the operation:
- How long can the intervention?
- How many days is the hospital stay?
- After surgery of the colon remains permanent swelling in the abdomen?
- The danger of this intervention?
- With the intervention of the colon there is risk of closure of the vaginal cavity?
- How deep can you do?
- I’ll have to use mentors in the post-intervention?
- The scar in the abdomen as it is long and wide (cm)? You can disguise via tattoo or even better with laser removal? Exactly how much is hidden from the slip?
- I could send photos of vaginal tweaks done to her?
- There are significant consequences after this surgery?
- The hole of the vagina can be moved higher?
- How much is the price of the intervention?

June 7, 2013

Good afternoon Maria,

Was in Rome a few months ago, also Florence,
and in Arezzo at a medical meeting.  Did not make Naples.
I am not a “lover” of colonic vaginas as there will
be an abdominal scar.  Often one sees
a red “stop light sign” in the perineum which is
colonic mucosa, and there is some peculiar odor.
It has a role as a last resort, and surely I would recommend
it under extreme circumstances.
You also have a very high riding posterior introital lip
rather than a “straight shot” into your vagina.
Yes, we do surgery for vaginal stenosis.  Please see
http://srsmiami.com/photography-m2f.html
example # 15/1-3  The attached is a letter we send
to prospective MTF patients which may be of interest.
The natal female pelvis has many suspensory ligaments and intra-peritoneal
features designed to maintain patency and suspension of the vagina.
The male pelvis does not, and nature abhors a vacuum. Dilation ideally
several times a day are advised if you are not sexually active.
Our novel approach has been done so far on 9 patients
with generally good results, but with one notable surgical
site bleeding complication.
We create the space, pack for one week, remove packing
and allowing your skin to re-epithelialize the space
extending your vagina inwards.  All the time you must be very
diligent with stent dilations to maintain the space and build
upon that.
Other approaches include:
A. The McIndoe procedure (creating a vagina with a skin graft).
B. The Vechietti procedure
A semi-surgical method that takes advantage of laparoscopy to accelerate dilation.
An olive-shaped device, placed at the vaginal opening, is connected
with sutures to a traction device on the lower abdomen. Under
laparoscopic guidance, the traction device is tightened daily,
gradually pulling the olive-shaped device inward to create a vagina.
This takes approximately one week. The device is then removed
and further manual dilation performed).
C. Colonic augmentation.
Requires an abdominal incision and removes part of your bowel
to become a vagina.  May have some unpleasant odors and can
have narrowing at the junction or a red stop light sign in the vulvar area
that will raise questions.  Colonic mucosa is more red than pink.
Lubrication varies, but most doctors who do a rectal exam for
other medical reasons put lubricant on their gloves.  Some patients
swear by it (like it).
Please see http://www.mayoclinic.org/vaginal-agenesis/treatment.html
Each has its pros and cons.
Our fees are 300 for consultation which can be initiated over the
phone.  9000 for surgery to include closure of anterior commissure
if that needs to be done.  Included is use of the facility,
anesthesia and any followup care we provide.  In the unlikely event
of hospital transfer I will provide care there gratis, but you may expect
a bill from the hospital and any consultants who may participate
in your care.
You will be required to purchase 500 worth of medical grade
vaginal stents.  If you are not sexually active you will need to
dilate after wound healing several times a day to maintain
your vagina.   This is also true for MTF patients who never have
stenosis.
Plan on staying at an nearby hotel (the Baltic or Daddy O’s
for a good 10 days post op, so we can start stent dilations
in the office after removal of your packing.

Best wishes and have a productive week,

Harold M. Reed, M.D.
305-865-2000

And another male chest (top surgery)

hello.. i just want to ask some help.. i’m aiza from las pinas here is my contact # 330-8592 .. i want to remove my breast, also i want to become a boy.. but i have no money to do that. hope you will understand my situation. thank you ..and god bless ..

aiza\ aka\ jeffzy
 
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Only a male chest

Mr. Reed i don’t have any Insurance and i want to get a male chest only. So how much it cost? Please Rhonda

April 29, 2013

Hi Rhonda,

Please look at our web-site http://www.srsmiami.com/male-chest-reconstruction.html Hope you like what you see.

Our fee is related to how large your breasts are now. We can discuss that, then call Anne our amiable office manager for compassionate pricing. Hope this will bring a smile to your face.

Best,

Harold M. Reed, M.D.

305-865-2000

 

 

 

 

Had vaginoplasty elsewhere, incisions not that pretty, am overweight now

April 15, 2013

Dear Dr. Reed,

Could you please help me?  I had SRS on the UK NHS (free) in March 2010 and since then have been suididal due to ugly scarring.  It looks not like a normal vagina.  On SRS upper BMI limit was 30 and mine was 29.  Since the SRS I’ve put on weight, too, and BMI is now 34.  I’ve read that being at this weight will affect wound healing.  So at least I can make sense, if only theoretically, of why I have these ugly scars (where the sutures were).

One side had haematoma, which has made ugly scarring.  The other side, though no haematoma, is still scarred more than the average, I have been told by my surgeon, though is not Keloid or Hypertrophic.  I have been told that a better result would have been obtained had my BMI been healthy.
The problem is that the NHS surgeon will only surgically revise the scar where the haematoma occurred (the worst side), and not the other side, which, as I’ve told you, is not Keloid or Hypertrophic, but is worse than the average result.   He says there is too high a risk that this side could end up worse than it is now.  But I am confused as a private surgeon has offered to do both sides.  Why is this?  Call me cynical but is it simply because I am paying for it?

Further, if I lose weight to a healthy BMI then have both sides revised, surely I’d have a reasonable chance of healing better on  both sides and having less scarring?   I am postulating this on the basis of being told that considerably overweight people are more likely to have poor wound healing.   (Assuming scarring comes under Wound Healing.)    No one can give me a direct answer to this simple question.
I just want to know what the chances are that if I lose weight to a healthy BMI and have scar revision on both sides, it will heal better with less scarring than that which I have now as a considerably overweight person?

Please help.  I am desperate and miserable.  Give costs of any procedures.
Victoria

 

April 16, 2013

Good morning Victoria,

Yes, you need to lose weight for 4 important reasons.

First, whether or not you are having surgery, your heart will say “thank you.”  Just stay away from Boston Marathons.  You’ll live a lot longer.
Second, you’ll look more attractive (my bias).
Third, fat against fat doesn’t heal as well.  Fat is not a well vascularized tissue.
Fourth, 150 pounds or so of torso weight on a small incision may very well split your incision and it will heal not so pretty.

You want cosmetic surgery, think about a BMI of no more than 25.  Sure you  will find brave doctors who will do you at 29 or higher.  Your cute bottom.

This is just a basic primer on what makes perineal wounds heal well. There is a lot more technical information we can discuss.  Other factors include perhaps undermining  skin to reduce tension, meticulous hemostats, multi-layered closure, application of steristrips for 4 to 6 weeks, a compressive dressing, and use of a ring pillow for 4 to 6 weeks to avoid torso compression on your suture line.

Cheers,

Harold M. Reed, M.D.

Scrotalplasty for FTM, more realistic?

March 30, 2013

Dear Dr. Reed,

I have seen many photos of FTM scrotoplasty, but none has showed a desired shape and size results. If I may, could you give some results of FTM scrotoplasty that achieved the looks of  normal biological  male scrotum.

Thank You,

Elaine

Good morning Elaine,

I share your sentiments.

Perhaps a good way to access the literature and photographs is to think this way….

Fournier’s gangrene is a devastating disease usually seen in poorly controlled diabetics, and can result in rapid loss of scrotal tissue within 24 hours.  These patients later have reconstructive surgery.

So I felt looking for articles under “complete scrotal reconstruction post Fournier’s disease”
would be most helpful.  For example http://doctorsgates.blogspot.com/2010/11/fournier-gangrene-reconstructed-by.html

The scrotum has a certain laxity that other skin areas of the body do not have, and usually the volumetric
appearance is limited to the size of the implants or testes put within,.  Our experience with tissue expanders is once the expander is removed, there is rapid lose of the original volume, but could still be an improvement.

Hope this gets you off to a good start.

Have a safe and  restful weekend,

Harold M. Reed, M.D.
305-865-2000

MTF asks about orgasm, depth, letters, lubrication

March 26, 2013

I have been on hormone replacement therapy since March 2009. I am living as a full time female at the present time.

I am wanting a SRS/GRS (male to female) surgery performed. I have never had any related surgeries in the past. I am looking for a vagina depth of 5 inches. My penis (when soft) is 1 to 1.5″ long. I am also wanting my body to be able to self lubricate during sex. And finally I want to be able to experience sex as a woman with orgasms.

I do not have any serious health problems. I am 69 inches tall and weigh 197 pounds. I feel that I am in great physical health.

I have been on hormone replacement theray since March 2009, and if need be I could get documentation to prove this. I also have a document stating that I have a gender identity problem and am suited/recommended for SRS/GRS surgery. This document is signed by a psychologist and a therapist that deals with gender identity cases. I also can have a nurse document that I have been living as a female for at least one year.

I can have my doctor here in Fort Smith, AR run any tests needed before surgery can begin. Also my doctor can be emailed with any other questions you might have about my health. Just notify me that you will need her email, and I will email that to you.

I do realize that a price quote given is just an approximation of the costs involved.

Respectfully,

Kelly

March 26, 2013

Good morning Kelly,

Thank you for your interest in what we do.  Sounds like you are well on  your way.

Taking your thoughtful questions and comments in  the order posed…

We can use scrotal tissue to extend your vaginal depth.  You will also derive more depth with early use of the stents (dilators).

Your 2 letters may be fine, but will have to be reviewed and may need to specify surgery.

That a transsexual vagina can be made to self lubricate is a myth.
Whereas a natal vagina makes transudate, penile and scrotal tissue cannot. We will extend your urethral mucosa along the vulvar plate which may appear moist.

If you are orgasmic now, plan on being orgasmic after surgery.

For 5′ 9″, would like to see your weight at 175 if possible.

After reading the attached, if you believe I am the doctor for you, please initiate a consultation over the phone with our office by sending us your name, address, and telephone number
in an envelope along with a check for 250.  We’ll get started ASAP.  We’ll have a lot to talk about.

This coming year, 2013, we are re-vitalizing our Grant with a slogan similar to one a few years ago (“the first 10 in 2010″).  Now it is “the first 13 in 2013.”   This should reduce your fees
by 10 to 20%, based upon need and availability of funds.

So far 3 positions were filled this past month.

Call the office and speak with Anne our amiable office manager for details.

Cordially,

Harold M. Reed, M.D.
Transgender Surgeon

1111 Kane Concourse, Suite # 311
Bay Harbor Islands, Florida 33154
305-865-2000

Electrolysis for pubic hair

March 25, 2013

Dear Dr. Reed,

Currently undergoing laser treatment to remove unwanted hair.
Any suggestions.

Veronica

Good afternoon Veronica,

Thank you for your interest in what we do.  Sounds like you
are well on your way.  Please review our electrolysis
zone posted on http://srsmiami.com/images/electrolysis-pre-op.pdf

Our bias is that electrolysis ( not laser)  done under local anesthesia
so your electrologist can use higher settings works the best, and is
less costly.

Allow for 2 touch ups, 3 to 4 weeks apart.

Cordially,

Harold M. Reed, M.D.

Transgender Surgeon
1111 Kane Concourse, Suite # 311
Bay Harbor Islands, Florida 33154
305-865-2000