Hi, Harold! I am planning on scheduling a phone consultation with you in September. We had an email exchange regarding a cosmetic SRS procedure without the vaginal canal. I read your attachment, but I still have some questions regarding what I need to submit before the consultation. I am attending counseling right now and dealing with some non-gender related issues, but it has been two-and-a-half years since my last surgery and all the legal gender changes, so I already fulfilled all the necessary H.Benjamin requirements in the past. Will I need to a change in my current diagnosis from the medical one of “endocrine disorder” to the psychological one of “GID”? That would make no sense to me because I’m already a woman, legally, hormonally, and appearance-wise, and there’s nothing psychologically abnormal about a woman wanting to be like all the other women out there. It would offend me a great deal, but for this surgery I would do anything that needs to be done. Maybe I should let my counselor call you about this? I hope I’m not coming off abrasive, I just want to make sure that I have “all my ducks in a row”, and I also want to protect my psychological peace of mind (I will need it for the surgery
You mentioned something about a psychological evaluation last time. Is that something you still would want me to get done? Please let me know what I need to submit, considering my individual situation, so that we can at least get this process started.
Thanks
Virginia A.
June 30, 2010
Good morning Virginia,
Presently I am in the Carolinas, but we have had on this computer alone about 8 E-mails, a few of which are posted below.
Especially for unconventional surgery, involving penectomy to conform to a female appearance, 2 letters of therapy clearance are required, one of which has to be written by a therapist with a doctoral degree, as this is irreversible surgery.
This is not to say you need therapy. Surely your feminine lifestyle is only that much more reassuring. If you need help finding ualified therapist, we have a list of very experienced therapists who may elect to do the initial evaluation over the phone, to be confirmed by a face to face meeting when you are in Miami.
Sincerely,
Harold M. Reed, M.D.
305-865-2000
Hi, Harold! My name is Virginia. I first contacted you back in 2008 regarding a possible post-orchi “cosmetic SRS” procedure, without vaginal depth. You were very helpful and accommodating, and you agreed to perform this procedure for me. However, I wasn’t ready to have it done due to financial reasons and, frankly, I wasn’t ready for it just yet. I needed some time to really figure out if it was something that was going to make me happy in the long run. I am ready now, and I would like to get this procedure done sometime in February of 2011.
Last time, your price quote for my procedure was $10,000, and you said that you would make this a one-time procedure, with a possibility of a touch-up later, if needed. I hope that your current price is similar to the quote you gave me.
I briefly described my situation to you before, but I don’t expect you to remember any of it
I am legally female (post-orchi), and I am not seeing any counselors right now. I did get extensive counseling therapy for non-gender-related psychological issues while I was attending Boise State University. My current medical diagnosis is “endocrine disorder, unspecified”. So this SRS procedure will be purely cosmetic and it will not have any legal implications, as far as gender change, etc. You did mention last time that in my case, I would be needing a psychological evaluation and 1 counselor letter. Is that something I would still need to provide? If so, what information are you looking for in the counselor letter? My main focus of therapy was childhood trauma, so I’m not sure how that would relate to my surgery. Also, I’m not sure if any of my previous 3 counselors are still working at Boise State.
I would like to get more info on how much I will have to pay for my deposit and the whole timing thing, as well as your availability in February of 2011.
Thanks,
Virginia
July 27, 2009
Good morning Virginia,
Understand what you would like, but the most sensual appearance will be achieved if you have cleavage between the labia. This can only be achieve by making some vaginal intrusion. You don’t need to have lots of depth. Even a few inches will work. Of course it is easy to say if you are not planing on penetrating sex, then having hair down there is a mute point, but again, you will look better if you have electrolysis. In natal women, there is no hair over the clitoral body.
We will attempt to make this a one stage procedure, but if you are seeking an extremely good cosmetic result, there may be a need for a touch up, which we do at no added charge as long as this is done under IV sedation and local.
All the best,
Harold M. Reed, M.D.
305-865-2000